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Know a parent who wants to promote something in May but has no plan besides “I’ll figure it out when I get there”? Forward this to them before they panic-write a promo email at 10:47 p.m.

In today’s issue:

Reply with one word:
PLAN
or
WINGING

Because most promos start as one and accidentally become the other.

• What to do: Draft your 3-email warm-up before you promote
• Why it works: Teach → proof → invite makes the promo feel natural
• What to stop doing: Waiting until launch week to figure out what to send

A better promo usually starts before the promo email.

That is the part most creators miss.

They think the job starts when the offer is ready.

Link is set.
Bonuses are set.
Deadline is set.
Now it is “time to promote.”

But by then, the real work should already be in motion.

Because a good promo rarely begins with:

“Hey, here’s the thing I’m selling.”

It begins earlier.

With a problem the reader recognizes.
A story or proof point they can feel.
And then an invitation that actually makes sense.

That order matters.

A lot.

Because when you skip the warm-up, the promo has to do all the heavy lifting by itself.

It has to create context.
Build trust.
Surface the problem.
Explain the solution.
And get the click.

All in one shot.

That is asking a lot from one email.

Especially when your reader is already tired, distracted, and reading with one eye while mentally planning tomorrow’s lunches.

This is why warm-up emails work so well.

They spread the weight out.

They help the reader get there in steps.

And that makes the promo feel way less awkward for everyone involved.

A while back I was helping my son get ready for soccer practice.

Nothing dramatic. Just the usual shuffle.

Cleats. Shin guards. Water bottle. One kid moving fast. One dad trying to remember what got left in the car.

Then came the classic last-minute move.

He wanted to skip straight to the scrimmage.

No warm-up. No passing drills. No easing in at all.

Just full speed from the jump.

You can guess how that looked.

Stiff. A little off. Way too rushed.

Not terrible. Just not ready.

And honestly? That's exactly what most email promos look like.

You throw your audience straight into the offer. The whole thing feels clunky.

Not because the offer is bad. Because there was no runway.

No warm-up. No rhythm. No simple path into the ask.

That's why I use a 3-email warm-up before every promo.

It gets your audience loose and ready before you make the ask.

Here’s what this means:

Before you promote anything in May, map three simple angles first.

Not seven.

Not a giant launch calendar.

Just three emails.

This first email is about helping the reader see the issue clearly.

What are they doing wrong right now?
What are they misunderstanding?
What small shift would help immediately?

Keep it useful on its own.

Examples:

Now make the idea feel real.

This can be:

This email should help the reader think:

“Okay… this is not just theory.”

Now you can make the offer.

But do it clearly.

Say who it helps.
Say who it does not help.
Give one link.
Keep the tone calm.

That is the whole structure.

Simple systems win.

Use this to map your warm-up plan tonight:

Email 1: teach the problem + quick win
Email 2: proof/story + what changed
Email 3: invite + who it’s for / not for
Add one link in each
Schedule them now

That is your May runway.

No launch circus required.

Let’s say your May offer is a beginner affiliate training.

Here is how the warm-up could look:

Email 1:
Why most beginners make promoting harder by sharing links before building trust

Email 2:
A story about the season where you kept bouncing between ideas, promoting too early, and seeing almost no movement until you slowed down and built some runway first

Email 3:
If you want help promoting in a way that feels simpler and more aligned, here’s the training I’d recommend. It’s for you if you want a clear beginner path. Not for you if you’re looking for instant results without doing the work.

That feels better immediately.

Because the invite makes sense by the time it arrives.

Not because the copy got louder.

Because the path got clearer.

Clarity beats clever.

This matters because most readers do not decide based on one email alone.

They decide in layers.

First they notice the problem.
Then they start believing it matters.
Then they become open to a solution.

That is why the 3-email warm-up works so well.

It matches the way trust actually builds.

Especially for busy parents.

They are not sitting around waiting for the perfect promo to land in their inbox.

They are reading in fragments.
Between responsibilities.
After bedtime.
With half their brain still on tomorrow.

So when your emails guide them step by step, the promo feels lighter.

More relevant.

More believable.

That is what makes the click easier.

A lot of promos feel hard because the audience meets the offer too late.

They meet it at the exact moment you want the click.

That is usually too cold.

Warm them up first.

Teach something.
Show something.
Then invite.

That rhythm makes the whole thing easier to write and easier to read.

Your one action today:
Draft your three angles for May and schedule them now.

“Warm-up first. Promo second.”

“A promo feels smoother when the reader has already walked toward it before the link shows up.”

If you want your next promo to feel more natural, do not start with the invite. Start with a 3-email runway: teach the problem, show proof, then make the offer. That simple sequence builds trust before the ask.

Ryan – Keepin it Real

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